Just need to talk it out

[findingthetruth]

Hi everyone, things have been going really well lately, but that satan can sure try to ruin things and he's still trying. A few days ago my husband made a comment about how something was inconvenient to him which it's this way since the discovery of his infidelity. I don't believe he intentionaly meant anything by it or to make me feel the way I did but I took it as though he didnt' care what I have had to go through from his infidelity, plus he has been trying to tell me what should or shouldn't bother me, saying why would this or that bother you or that shouldn't bother you. He apologized and said he didn't mean anything by it and I accepted but since this all of a sudden I just keep thinking all those horrible questions again, the why and how he could do this to me, what didn't I have or do that she has or did, why wasn't I good enough ect.These questions havent' really come up near as much lately mainly the only times is when we are intimate and for a long time I had to fight back tears and try so hard to hide them, that has gotten better but now just looking at him the last couple days these questions come up and I feel like being mean but I haven't, he doesn't know. He's been very nice and loving these things just need to leave my head. I just needed to get this off my chest so if you ladies can say a prayer for me I would really appreciate it. Thanks so much girls.

[Gentletouch]

Findingthetruth, I will surely pray for you but I would like you and your husband to read together Psalm 103 and concentrate on verse 12.

Psalm 103:12 (King James Version)
12As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us.

After reading it together, pray together that GOD will give you power and strength to forget the past. Since GOD has removed it from him and GOD has forgiven, you are doing it the same and since GOD has thrown it in the deepest part of the sea, both of you should not go fishing it out.

Tell him: Fishing is forbidden.! Neither you nor him will mention it again. I will pray for you a simple prayer but powerful that you can repeat it till you and him have forgotten about it and that he will be far from doing the same thing.

"FATHER, I pray that YOU will be with our sister's battle for peace and trust. I loose from her her dh the cause, the reason the desire to practice infidelity or keep rehearsing the past that bring hurts on the part of the wife. I loose from Finding the cause the reason the act of distrusting her dh and having the pain upon hearing it. I loose from them and their memory the painful sin and its effect and I pray that the husband will truly desire peace and love at home and completely trusting in YOUR mighty work and Word in Matthew 16:19; 18:18, In JESUS name , they will overcome, I pray, amen."

Finding, you can shape a prayer out of this prayer as your own but keep on praying and do not let the devil have the handle by just praying once or twice. When we love, someone we fight for them till JESUS comes. There's no easy life on earth for those whom GOD is developing and shaping characters. All trials and sufferings on earth are character- makers, character- benders for godly image till we attain what GOD would like to see in us like trusting, nonconditional loving and long suffering and endless forgiving (40x7 for each sin).

God bless.

Gentletouch

[lovelevi]

Dear Finding,

Oh, sister, I do so understand. My husband has been so sweet etc but I still have so much distrust, pain and fear that it will happen to me again.

My dh thinks we are doing so great, he will say he can feel us getting closer etc but somedays I have such a struggle with my mind that I would like to just scream and beat the tar out of him. He doesn't know this, I try to go to God more now about those things since one of our dear sisters had posted how she had been going to God to have Him "sic" her husband.

I just wanted you to know that you are not alone, that I am praying for you and with you.

Thank you GentleTouch for your prayer and wise words.